How do you like the girls to look when gagged?

[Marlene38EE]

Well, now that I'm officially and happily Bisexual (I always suspected I was, nice to finally know) I can chime in on this convo without seeming odd...
But I guess that was never really an issue.
Anyways... Back To Topic.
I like gags with the straps under the hair, but every now and then, there's a pic where the gag-strap's over the hair, and it looks hot because it's so desperate and rushed-looking, like the girl's just be taken-down hard and headed off in a quick abduction.
Throw in a terrified expression and the right 'sound fx' and dialogue...
Watching Husband muzzle the Filly, she's a fighter, and she makes it a challenge...but it's going to happen regardless of her struggles and objections. Sometimes, it's done over the hair, seemingly an aesthetic choice.
Yes, our Filly's very much into Force-Play--I think she's purchased almost everything dofantasy ever published, so she has a LOT of stuff in her head regarding roleplay/scene-recreation.
But, she knows when it's time to be a well-behaved and properly obedient/submissive girl and when it's time to enjoy living out some fantasy roleplay.

[bellamyspiano]

Oh, sounds like there is much going on at home for you! I like a bit of forceplay myself

[Marlene38EE]

Oh, sounds like there is much going on at home for you! I like a bit of forceplay myself

In a word; 'Yes!' LOL!
Force-play...fun, and good exercise too!! I don't 'let' hubby win during force-play, if he wants me, he has to take me down and MAKE me yield to his Dominance.
The rest of the time, I'm a Properly submissive Mare.

We've been going through Brianna's Dofantasy collection with her that she's been building as she's had spare money to buy a copy now and then of for a long time--and she's been asking Husband about certain gag designs in some of the stories and how difficult would they be to make Real. Some of her faves are from the 'SNATCHER' story.

http://www.dofantasy.com/english/USAFC121Snatcher.htm

Officially, Husband prefers gag straps under the hair, to eliminate skin irritation, and Brianna has no preference--she thinks it looks sexy both ways and is fine with being gagged in either way.
...when she's not playing 'little bitch'.

Brianna's settling in steadily and very nicely, feeling more and more at-home and 'comfortable' in considering it as Home.
Things are going to be busier for myself and the Filly as this coming weekend there's the 2nd 'Get-Together' at the Acreage of Husband's friend. It's a Lifestyle thing he and his oldest friends have established and alternates between Dom's Nights (this weekend) and ones for us subs/slaves/mares and pets.
Basically, once every 3 months.
But, there's some things the Filly needs to know, learn and practice along with myself for sake of good manners and proper form towards the Doms other than Husband.
She's being Presented that night, and wants to make a good impression.

[bellamyspiano]

Oh, it all sounds very intriguing! Hope it went/goes well!

I do agree about all those gags in The Snatcher, I like the black one with the straps that go over the head. Mmmm.

[Marlene38EE]

Oh, it all sounds very intriguing! Hope it went/goes well!

I do agree about all those gags in The Snatcher, I like the black one with the straps that go over the head. Mmmm.

It went very well!!
Thanks for the well-wishing!!
I'll be blogging about it later--even though it was saturday, my head's still spinning and we have a few houseguests to entertain first. One of the guests is a Pro Domme that Husband knows from his highschool days, and she with her slaves are staying with us until tomorrow evening when they return to Ontario.
Spending a lot of time talking with her and she's every bit as nice as Husband told me she was. Couldn't ask for better houseguests!!
The manners and etiquette is amazing!!

I'd be really hard-pressed to pick a fave of the gags in that story... LOL
Husband is working up improvements/refinements to one of his designs. It's a 'Tongue Trapper' with silicone 'blades'. You can stick your tongue out--you can't draw it back though unless the tension release is pressed. It has a biteguard to protect against biting your tongue, and even though it's painless, unlike tongue clamps, it's maddening!! LoL!
The Filly got to test it out last night--with her hands cuffed behind her to a retaining belt. One 10 minute, then a 20 minute test-wearing with a 15 minute break between.
Poor Brianna, all she could do was sound, drool uncontrollably, fight her cuffs and nearly lose her mind!!
I couldn't help her because I was forbidden from doing so, and had my own problems fighting the 'Buzz Belt' he'd locked on me with my hands locked in leather restraining mitts. Effing thing--turns your legs to rubber, just trying to stand is a real challenge!! All I could do was writhe on the floor and fight against being forced to cum in front of our guests.
Wanda did enjoy the show...and teased the hell out of us during it.

[bellamyspiano]

I THINK you are teasing ME. That last scene you just described made me incredibly wet. Gracious!

I'm off to have some fun (on my own)- it's been a good while, been so busy with real life *grumbles*

[Marlene38EE]

I THINK you are teasing ME. That last scene you just described made me incredibly wet. Gracious!

I'm off to have some fun (on my own)- it's been a good while, been so busy with real life *grumbles*

No teasing intended...but this is a 24/7/365 BDSM Lifestyle household.
I can understand how life gets, I'm usually pulling 16 to 18 Hr days doing Research for hubby for business and working on my writing--I'd starve to death if he didn't drag me to the 'surface' regularly, so easy to get caught-up in things like a riptide or undertow.
You've got to remember to make time for Life, no matter how busy things get. Something my folks taught me long ago.

Husband is very...inventive. He's one of those guys who can fix a broken carburetor throttle linkage out in the middle of nowhere with the lanyard clip-ring off his swiss army knife.
SO, when he starts getting Creative and brings his skills and experience to bear, he comes up with some really cool (VERY safe) things.
He also has over 2 decades of experience in the Lifestyle, so he knows how to set things up situation-wise to make them 'interesting'.

He's known Wanda since Juniour High actually, and she's also friends with John (Husband's friend who lives with us due to his failing health) as they all hung out with each other then. She mainly made the trip out here for a chance to see John as this could be her last chance, and also to reconnect with Martin (Husband) as they haven't seen each other in years, and phone contact...well, not the same, right?

[petkajira]

Oh, it all sounds very intriguing! Hope it went/goes well!

I do agree about all those gags in The Snatcher, I like the black one with the straps that go over the head. Mmmm.

I prefer plug or penis gags to ball gags, and i also adore the look of straps over the head...more secure and also more restrictive.

A girl's mouth should always be "occupied."

[Marlene38EE]

Oh, it all sounds very intriguing! Hope it went/goes well!

I do agree about all those gags in The Snatcher, I like the black one with the straps that go over the head. Mmmm.

I prefer plug or penis gags to ball gags, and i also adore the look of straps over the head...more secure and also more restrictive.

A girl's mouth should always be "occupied."

It all went just fine, and TY! for saying!!
yeah...I'll go long with that gag you mention in The Snatcher, yes! Plug/dildo/penis gags both look really good in stories--and really effective in reality!! But with a good Artist, a red ballgag really looks good!! The straps and such over and around the head, nothing makes you feel as completely secured-controlled and Dominated as those types--unless your hands are free and hubby's locked them so you have NO chance of removing them!!
Around here, Husband does make sure our 'oral skills' are being constantly assessed...and when not, we are frequently 'muzzled'.
...kind of a nuisance if one's expecting a pizza delivery though and if one answers the door like that, well...it addes to the Tales of Pizza Delivery. LOL

[petkajira]

Hello, Marlene:

Controlling a girl's body (and psyche) is incomplete without her mouth being 'bound."

The tongue trapper you mention sound intriguing - is there an digital image somewhere, or perhaps a drawing? How did the testing go? How long could the little filly wear that evil thing?

I do love gags.